Growing Together When You're Growing at Different Speeds

Are you secretly worried that your personal growth journey is pulling you and your partner in opposite directions?


Do you catch yourself thinking, "They just don't GET it" when you try to share something that's changed your life?


You're not alone. And more importantly – this doesn't mean your relationship is doomed.

The Hidden Challenge High-Achieving Women Face

You've invested in yourself. Read the books. Done the workshops. Maybe even worked with coaches or therapists.


You're evolving, expanding, becoming more of who you're meant to be.


But there's one problem...


Your partner seems content exactly where they are.


And now you're stuck in what I call "The Growth Gap" – that uncomfortable space where: 


• You've hidden personal development books because you don't want another eye roll


• You've stopped sharing breakthrough moments because they always fall flat


• You're doing ALL the relationship work while they seem content with the status quo


• You feel like you're speaking different languages even though you sleep in the same bed


• You worry that growing means growing apart (...and that thought terrifies you!)


• Every attempt to share your journey feels like YOU'RE the one creating distance 

"Working with Maggie was transformative for my marriage and self-growth. She helped me realize I could choose myself first without neglecting my relationships. Maggie's coaching style is compassionate yet direct, guiding me to let go of unnecessary suffering and design my marriage on my own terms." 


- Ana, Hawaii, Coaching Alumni

This FREE Workshop is PERFECT for You If:

You're a high-achieving woman who values both personal growth AND your relationship

You're tired of feeling like you have to choose between evolving and staying connected

You're ready to lead positive change in your relationship (...even if your partner isn't on the personal development train!)

You want practical scripts, not just theory about "better communication"

You believe relationships can transform when even ONE person changes their approach

You appreciate a feminist approach that honors your power to create change

This is NOT for You If:

You believe your partner needs to change first before anything can improve

You're looking for someone to tell you to stay in your relationship no matter what

You think personal growth is "woo-woo nonsense"

You want a magic fix without doing any inner work

You're uncomfortable with a feminist lens on relationship dynamics

Inside This Transformative Workshop, You'll Discover:

The Truth About Growing Together: Why the myth that couples must "grow at the same pace" is keeping you stuck – and what research actually tells us creates lasting connection

The Power of One Framework: How changing YOUR approach can transform your entire relationship dynamic (...yes, even without your partner being "on board" with personal development!)

5 Word-for-Word Communication Templates Including:


The "Permission Framework" that makes sharing insights feel safe instead of preachy


My "No Pressure Invitation" script that creates curiosity instead of eye rolls


The "Different Priorities" conversation that honors both your paths


Exact words to set growth boundaries without creating walls


How to share your wins without sounding superior


For all of these, we focus on a few short and clear sentences, this is not memorizing essay! Just some simple, yet powerful phrases to get you started and some prompts to help you prepare

 What's Possible When You Use These Templates: While individual results vary based on your unique relationship dynamics and consistent application, participants have reported:

• Partners becoming curious about their growth journey instead of dismissive

• Successfully inviting partners to activities without triggering resistance

• Feeling more confident sharing insights without guilt

• Creating conversations about differences that bring connection instead of conflict

• Gaining clarity about what's truly possible in their relationship

 The Bigger Picture: You'll discover whether your relationship can evolve WITH your growth – gaining either deeper connection OR valuable clarity about your path forward

Workshop Overview:

What You'll Experience:

Why growth gaps happen in even the strongest relationships

• The surprising truth about partners who "resist" personal development

• How to know if you're growing apart vs. experiencing normal evolution

• A powerful visualization exercise for bridging the gap

• Live examples of each template in action

• Guidance on when/how to use each communication strategy

Format: 58-minute video workshop (watch anytime)

Bonus: Downloadable PDF with all 5 communication templates
Access: Instant access upon registration 60-minute video workshop (watch anytime)

"When I signed up with Maggie, I thought to myself, 'I'm paying for a lifetime of happiness,' and that is exactly what it feels like. I can't believe that I was a well-educated, intelligent 30-something-year-old and nobody had taught me the basic building blocks of a thriving marriage until I met Maggie."


- Simone, South Korea, Coaching Alumni

About Maggie

Hi! I'm Maggie Reyes, creator of The Marriage Mindset Makeover and host of The Marriage Life Coach Podcast (with over 340,000 downloads, ranking in the top 2% globally).


For over a decade, I've helped high-achieving women navigate the complex intersection of personal growth and partnership. Through my feminist approach to relationship coaching, I've guided hundreds of women through exactly this challenge you're facing.

I created this workshop because I've seen too many brilliant women dim their light OR sacrifice their relationships in the name of growth. You deserve both – and I'll show you how.


What Clients Are Saying:

"Working with Maggie was transformative for my marriage and self-growth. She helped me realize I could choose myself first without neglecting my relationships. Maggie's coaching style is compassionate yet direct, guiding me to let go of unnecessary suffering and design my marriage on my own terms." 

- Ana, Hawaii, Coaching Alumni

"I first reached out to Maggie after watching her Marriage Master Class and falling in love with her process. Right away, I identified with how she described the marriage of a type A woman to a type B man - and I KNEW we needed some help. 

I wanted to re-establish a close and fun relationship with my husband. I felt like somewhere over the last 17 years - the fun and connection went away! And I desperately wanted it back. I knew that it HAD to start with ME and my mindset... and with Maggie's coaching our relationship is back on track. 

I now approach my relationship with a gentleness that I would never have been able to access without her help. I am able to be grateful for the things he does RIGHT and work productively on the things that irritate or annoy me. In doing that, we are closer than ever... and this magical thing happened... the harder I tried... the harder HE tried! 

Maggie is a JOY to work with. Enthusiastic, loving and kind. I have nothing but the BEST things to say about this phenomenal coach." 

- Amanda, Canada, Coaching Alumni

Individual Results 
Real talk? Everyone's relationship journey is unique! The stories I've shared reflect actual transformations, but as you can imagine, each marriage is beautifully different. What works for one couple might need tweaking for another (...because obviously!). The magic happens when YOU show up with these tools and adapt them to YOUR specific relationship. Some of my clients see shifts RIGHT AWAY while others notice change little by little (...and then all at once!).
What's most powerful about this approach is that you'll either get CLOSER or get CLEARER. Many women find these templates create a bridge to deeper connection and renewed love with their partners. For others, these tools reveal with loving clarity that the depth they're seeking may not be possible with their current partner. Either way, you gain the empowered perspective to make confident decisions about your relationship - whether that means staying and thriving or transitioning with grace. 
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A quick note: This workshop is perfect for navigating normal relationship growth challenges, but it's not designed for relationships experiencing severe control patterns, abuse, or untreated mental health crises. Your safety and wellbeing always come first! If you're experiencing concerning patterns in your relationship, please connect with appropriate support resources like the National Domestic Violence Hotline in the U.S. (1-800-799-7233) or licensed mental health professionals in your area. Not sure where you stand? The workshop includes gentle reflection points to help you assess what's right for your unique situation.

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Frequently Asked Questions:

Q: I feel completely disconnected from my partner even though we're both growing...is this workshop still for me?
A: YES! (This is exactly what this workshop is for!) If you're a high-achieving woman who's done tons of personal development but feel like your partner just doesn't "get it," this workshop is designed specifically for you. You'll learn 5 practical communication templates (not just theory!) that help you share your growth journey WITHOUT overwhelming your partner or creating more distance.
Q: Will you tell me to save my marriage no matter what?
A: Absolutely not. (...and if you're looking for someone to tell you to stay no matter what, I'm not your coach!) My approach is about helping you access your own wisdom to create the BEST relationship possible with your current partner. Sometimes that means getting closer through deeper connection and understanding. Sometimes it means getting crystal clear that this relationship isn't serving either of you anymore.
Q: Do I need my partner to watch this with me?
A: Nope! This workshop is designed specifically for YOU to implement on your own. (...because waiting for them to change first is exactly what keeps us stuck!) The whole approach is grounded in Systems Theory from psychology - the principle that when one element in a system changes, the other elements respond to that change. In my marriage coaching, I call this "The Power of One" – how changing YOUR approach can shift the entire relationship dynamic. While your partner is welcome to join if interested, the templates and strategies are crafted to work even when you're the only one actively using them. In fact, some of the most powerful transformations happen when one person leads the way!
Q: What specific results can I expect from using these templates?
A: When you master these templates, you'll develop the skill of sharing your growth journey without creating distance or defensiveness. You'll know exactly HOW to open conversations about personal development in a way that feels safe and inviting. You'll gain confidence in expressing your needs while respecting your partner's boundaries. Most importantly, you'll experience the emotional relief of no longer walking on eggshells or hiding parts of yourself. Instead of feeling resentful about the "growth gap," you'll have practical tools to navigate differences with grace. While your specific results will depend on your unique relationship dynamics and consistent application, these templates give you the foundation to create more authentic connection – whether that leads to growing closer together or gaining clarity about your paths. The emotional freedom of knowing HOW to handle these conversations (...instead of avoiding them!) is transformative in itself.
Q: Is this just another "communication workshop" with generic advice?
A: Not even close! (...and if you're tired of hearing "just communicate better" without anyone showing you HOW, you're in the right place!) This workshop gives you 5 specific, word-for-word templates you can literally use tomorrow. These aren't generic platitudes – they're battle-tested scripts born from my 2,000+ hours of coaching high-achieving women through exactly this challenge.

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Note: The testimonials shared are from real clients who have worked with Maggie through her coaching programs. While their experiences were positive, individual results may vary. The Growth Gap Workshop offers tools and strategies that have helped many women transform their relationships, but outcomes depend on your unique situation, relationship dynamics, and personal engagement with the material. 


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